How to Make Career Decisions When Everything Feels Risky
The reason big career decisions feel paralyzing is not that you lack information. It is that your brain processes potential losses more intensely than potential gains. Here is how to work with that wiring instead of against it.
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The short version
- Tversky and Kahneman describe loss aversion as one of two principles behind how people weigh risky choices.
- Arkes and Blumer found that people who had already invested money kept going and rated their odds of success higher.
- Samuelson and Zeckhauser found that people disproportionately stick with the status quo, including in faculty health plan and retirement program choices.
- A small, time limited test with a decision rule set in advance is one practical way to act on all three findings.
Career choices feel risky when you are weighing a known job against an unknown one. Three well studied patterns help explain why staying put can feel safer than it is. This article walks through what the original authors found, what they did not claim, and one practical way to act on it.
Losses weigh more than gains
Amos Tversky and Daniel Kahneman built cumulative prospect theory on two principles, which they call diminishing sensitivity and loss aversion. Loss aversion means a loss tends to hurt more than an equal gain pleases. The authors also report a characteristic pattern in choices: people lean toward caution when a gain is likely and toward risk taking when a loss is likely.
For a career decision, that pattern matters. Leaving a stable job puts a visible loss on the table: the salary, the title, the colleagues. The gain from a new path is harder to picture. Loss aversion offers one explanation for why the loss can dominate your thinking.
A note on a figure we previously published. An earlier version of this article said people feel losses "roughly twice as strongly" as gains and cited the 1979 paper. We could not read that paper or a source for the ratio, so we have removed the number. The 1992 abstract we did read supports the principle, not a specific multiple.
Trap one: the money and time you already spent
Hal Arkes and Catherine Blumer studied what they call the sunk cost effect: a greater tendency to continue an endeavor once an investment in money, effort, or time has been made. In their theater subscription field study, patrons who paid more for season tickets attended more plays over six months. They also found that people who had already invested money inflated their projections of success compared with people who had not.
The authors note that prospect theory describes this pattern of throwing good money after bad. They also report that taking economics courses did not reduce the tendency.
Think of the degree you finished, the ten years in one industry, or the certification you earned. Those costs are gone whichever way you go. The Arkes and Blumer findings suggest those costs can still pull you toward staying, and can make your odds look better than they are.
Quit: The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away
Annie Duke · Portfolio, 2022
Evidence rating: LowBased on the findings above, one way to act is to decide in advance what would make you leave. The publisher's description says Duke covers sunk cost bias, status quo bias, quitting contracts, kill criteria and premortems. We rate the behavior of setting exit criteria in advance Low: the studies above describe the biases, but we did not review trials showing that this practice improves career outcomes. Skip it if you already have a clear exit plan, or if you prefer a coach or mentor to a book.
Trap two: the pull of the familiar
William Samuelson and Richard Zeckhauser ran experiments and also examined actual choices, including faculty health plan and retirement program selections. They report that individuals disproportionately stick with the status quo. They discuss explanations from economics, psychology, and decision theory.
In practice, this means that doing nothing is a choice with its own pull, and it does not carry zero risk. A job you keep by default is still a decision about the next several years.
What we removed
The earlier version listed a separate "ambiguity trap," saying uncertainty triggers perceived danger and causes delay. It had no study behind it, and we could not source one, so we dropped it as a research claim. Uncertainty is still a reasonable thing to plan for, as the steps below show.
The earlier version also said research shows people regret inaction more than failed attempts, and attributed a regret question to Daniel Gilbert. We could not read the regret research, and the attribution did not check out against a source we opened. We have removed both. Treat any claim that avoidance is always the riskier path with caution; the studies we read do not say that.
Turning the findings into a decision
None of these studies tells you to quit or to stay. They describe how people tend to weigh risk, which gives you a way to check your own reasoning. Based on those findings, here is one way to act.
- Separate decisions you can undo from decisions you cannot. A side project or a conversation with a hiring manager costs little to reverse. Resigning without an offer costs more.
- List what you have already spent, then cross it off. The sunk cost findings suggest those items bias your forecast, so ask only what each path offers from today forward.
- Name the default. If you do nothing, what does the next year look like? The status quo findings suggest this option looks safer than it is.
- Pick a small test and a date. A few weeks of informational interviews or a short freelance project gives you information without a leap.
- Write your exit rule before you start. Decide what result would make you continue and what would make you stop. Duke describes this practice under names such as quitting contracts and kill criteria.
The rule matters because the research above describes biases that grow once you are already invested. A rule written before you begin is harder to bend later.
What this evidence cannot tell you
The studies describe how groups of people decide, mostly in experiments and a few field settings. They do not predict how your own career will go. They also do not show that the steps above produce better outcomes; that is why we rate the behavior Low. If money, health, or family obligations limit your options, a cautious choice can be sound. Talking with a mentor, a financial planner, or a career counselor can add information these studies cannot.
What to do this week
- Write down the decision you are avoiding and whether it can be undone.
- List your sunk costs on one side of a page and the next twelve months under each option on the other.
- Choose one low cost test, such as two conversations with people in the role you are considering, and put a date on it.
- Write one sentence that starts "I will stop or continue if..." and keep it where you will see it.
Sources
- Tversky, A., & Kahneman, D. Advances in prospect theory: Cumulative representation of uncertainty. Journal of Risk and Uncertainty, 5(4), 297 to 323, 1992. doi.org/10.1007/BF00122574
- Arkes, H. R., & Blumer, C. The psychology of sunk cost. Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes, 35(1), 124 to 140, 1985. sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/0749597885900494
- Samuelson, W., & Zeckhauser, R. Status quo bias in decision making. Journal of Risk and Uncertainty, 1(1), 7 to 59, 1988. doi.org/10.1007/BF00055564
- Duke, A. Quit: The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away. Portfolio, 2022. Publisher description and ISBNs as listed by Porchlight Book Company. porchlightbooks.com
Correction
Correction, October 2026: an earlier version of this article said people feel losses "roughly twice as strongly" as gains and cited a 1979 paper; we could not verify the figure at a source we read, so we removed it. It also described an "ambiguity trap" with no cited study, attributed a regret question to Daniel Gilbert, and said research shows people regret inaction more than failed attempts. We could not support those claims and have removed them. The sunk cost and status quo descriptions now follow the abstracts and summaries we read, and the article now includes a book recommendation with a disclosed affiliate link.